Be mindful of the company you keep. It's been said that birds of a feather flock together. If you're constantly hanging around someone who is always negative, lazy, or complaining, more than likely you will start doing the same. Surround yourself with positive married couples that you can learn from, that share the same morales.
If your husband is constantly hanging with a friend\relative that is known to cheat on his wife, subconsciously your husband may think it's okay. Or if your girlfriend is always shopping and living beyond her means, you may be tempted to as well. Sometimes you can encourage and help others(if they want help), but are you willing to do that? Or, you may be the one that need the help, so you need to have someone positive to keep you on track and tell you the truth.
You also have to be mindful of what your watching and listening too. Again we still have choices, we can decide who we're letting in our thoughts, marriage, around our kids, our overall circle.
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