No matter what life throws our way, we still have choices. Women definitely have a controlling desire, and throughout life this far I've learned I can not control everything. In the begining of our marriage I wanted to be in control. For some reason I didn't think my groom was capable of making all of the wise decisions.
He wanted to make me happy so he allowed me to do many things my way.
Well I must say If I had to do it all over again, I would have listened to him in the begining. We must move on and learn from the past to keep moving forward in the future. I said all of that to say, I'm at a point now where I respect and trust my groom to make wise decisions.
I choose to look at the positive side of each situation, I make a daily effort to be happy. I can't control other people or how they may treat me. However, I can choose how I react . And because I believe and serve GOD, I know it's not about me, but about allowing GOD to use me. We have to choose to make every moment count, and choose to live on purpose.
I know I have that desire to control so my husband says. I guess it come from being independent and then being raised by a father that always taught us girls never to depend on a man. So it's been hard but over the four years I have been married to my soul mate. I'm learning to let my husband make the decisions. Sometimes I know I can be just right ugly with him but God is working on me. I feel when you can't make those choices by yourself, or
ReplyDeletewith your spouse, you must depend on Jehovah jireh.
Amen, we have to let our husband be the head as designed by GOD. As many times we see shortterm and men see longterm. It took many years, debit and bad choices to learn that lesson.
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