CHANGE

Remember, that you can't change others only yourself. Many times we love to point out what others need to do especially when it comes to our spouse.  The reality is, we only have power to change ourselves. 
We have to step back and look at what we're not happy with and make a decision to change it when it comes to ourself.  Many times the actual problem isn't obvious, and is many times blamed on someone or something.  You will be surprise when changing yourself will affect others to change around you.  What I'm also learning is we have to raise the standards around us, people will treat you the way that you allow them to.  

 Listening to the word that was ministered at church last Sunday, there is no condemnation in Christ, we have to stop condeming ourselves and make a decision to change.   We also have to make adjustments in our environment regarding people, conversations, what we watch and listen to.  Surround yourself with positive influences, we do have to make good choices to reflect where you want to be and where you are going in life.  Change is hard, but necessary...