As I was listening to one of my fav segment of the radio station I listen too. The life coach spoke about key points of being a good spouse. Many of us including me thought the key to a successful relationship is communication. However, as mentioned you can communicate all you want, if you're not being heard, or not able to communicate effectively, than what's so good about it.
Self awareness was brought up when communicating, what issues you need to address that maybe hindering you from being heard, or the ability to listen. Also, are you teachable? Do you tend to know everything and always finding blame in your spouse? Are you able to admit that you are wrong, and apologize when necessary?
And the final key point, unpredictable intimacy. Keep it interesting, new and fresh. Get out of your comfort zone, be creative.
Take a moment and discuss with your spouse how you rate each other, also ask your friends how they feel about your friendship?. If they are saying the same things, than you need to become self aware and make some changes.
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