Odd Moments to bond

Well to me odd, but my groom seem to think there is never an odd time to bond.  Well I don't know if it's mid life crisis or what, but my groom seem to be much daring these days.  I don't know if it's because I just shaved my legs, the orange polish on my toe nails, or the fact that I just been paying more attention to what he likes lately.   But, I have to remind him some time that we do have kids home in the next room! LOL

APPEARANCE

I heard a question the other day regarding if a women should adjust her appearance to please her husband. Well, this question was referring to minor adjustments not like surgery or anything. However, that would be a good question as well. Should you dress or wear your hair etc. the way your husband would like you too?

FOR GRANTED

The other day I was listening to the radio, and the radio personality had a life coach on as guest speaker. The topic happened to be taking your spouse for granted.

She listed possible signs: Not taking time to look nice for your spouse, like you do when you go to work or going out. Not taking the extra time to plan a special occasion, or buy gifts (excuse! Oh we've been together too long to do all that!). She indicated that her blackberry helped save her marriage. She uses it to stay organized, using the reminder feature to simple tell her husband that she loves him.

Surprise Date Night

Well, it's time for a  little spontaneity.  Lately, we've been having quick bonding moments, and I want to do something different.  Just a hint, I'm going shopping for a few props to change my appearance a little.  Just in case he's taking a glimpse of my blog, I'm saving details for later.  Still working out the plan.. Any suggestions?