HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY

Thank a military person today for all that they have done.   No one can really understand what these men and women have sacrificed, the memories they will past down to next generation.  Our country isn't perfect but it still is the most wonderful place to live. We have so many freedoms that we take for granted and many of these are because of the men and women who have sacrificed to make it so.  Today—give thanks, as you're enjoying  BBQ and family.  To my Handsome Groom, thank you for the years you sacrificed as a Marine....

Why Complain?

Wow! I was just reminded when reading another blog, of a scripture I use to carry around in my purse on a 3x5 index card.  Out of sight out of mind. "  Do all things without murmurings and disputings." (Philippians 2:14). This scripture is simple but deep.  Do you realize how much you complain?  I have to be mindful of this scripture, because I do find myself complaining more often then not.  And I do have to admit, I've learned how to not argue as much with my groom, however the key word in the scripture is ALL.   If you think about it, is it worth complaining, does it really do any good?  What can you do in your power to change it?  Action speaks louder then words. 

Simple Disagreement

Time management, well as soon as I think I might have it down, I go and add something else.  And guess what suffers, the not so fun things, like washing and folding clothes.  Or cooking everyday, my groom and I had a heated disagreement Tuesday evening.  Well, pretty much he felt I should have cooked, but I cooked the day before which should have lasted for Tuesday.  Anyway, once I got home, I did log on the computer for awhile (problem #1). 

5 Bad Relationship Habit to Dump

Interesting article listed on yahoo.

Marty Friedman, author of Straight Talk for Men About Marriage, to discuss how to recognize — and get rid of — these bad habits so your love life can prosper. Read more on 5 bad relationship habits to dump.

APPRECIATION

How was your mother's day?  As I was reading other blogs, it was surprising how many women didn't feel appreciated on mother's day.  Then I start looking back on some of the years I didn't.  It goes back to you get what you give.  One of the ladies indicated her 2 teenage daughters seem to have forgotten, or did they?  I know teenagers are some what selfish, but they also mimic what they see. We as parents set an example (expectations) for our children, did they see you appreciate your mother, or husband on father's day? The real underline meaning is, do your children see you and your spouse appreciate each other overall?  Why would it change on a commerical day that the world has setup as Mother's Day.   

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Good information, very well said, had to share this information, most of us can't sleep when we're angry anyway stay-up-instead-of-going-to-bed-angry.

Is your house a home

The women of the house is a important role.  We are to set the tone and environment of our homes.  If you think about it, we are ministers of our homes.  We minister to our families five senses daily, starting with food, clean house, our appearance,and conversation.  Is your house a home? Do you think your spouse is rushing to come to your home, or would he rather be in someone else's.  It's meaning to the old saying a way to a man's heart is through his stomach, cook more often, there are plenty of quick recipes. Take time out daily to tidy up clutter, and take a extra moment to look nice for your spouse. One thing I know about my groom is he loves to be appreciated, and loves affection.  Definitely don't forget your tone, your spouse will be rushing home to hear your voice. Your home should be fit for a king, a safe haven from the stress of the world.